My New Life Resolution Drive

My new life resolution

1- Sleep early and wake up early
2- Read the Quran once a month
3- Get married

I think biggest challenge is how to discipline oneself.

My New Life Resolution – After Ramadan
1. Seeking Knowledge
a. Filtering for proper and sound information (i.e. Allah, books, www, etc.)
b. Truth and facts -v- falsehood and lies
c. Reflecting.
2. Increasing good deeds
a. Taking advantage of the small deeds
b. Remaining consistent
c. Making a weekly commitment for at least one good deed with proper
intention, insha’Allah.
3. Da’wah
a. To my family/household = Setting an ‘example’
b. To youth in my community/Ummah = ‘Strength’ by truth/knowledge
c. To non-Muslims = Supporting positive ‘change’

And Allah SWT’s Plan supercedes all plans, I only ask His Guidance & His Help, without associating partners with Him. Allahumma Amiin.

My goals for this Ramadan.

1. Complete full revision of Juz Ama.
2. Start memorising more quran.
3. Sleep early.
4. Perfect my Tajweed and teach it.
5. Keep myself accountable.

My Allah allow my goals to be easy for me.

I want to ask the speakers, how to have the courage to change?

I cant wait for the interviews.

And I forgot:

My resolutions are:

1) Be a better Muslim, doing more good deeds
2) To have a direct and indirect positive effect on ppl around me
3) To be the best that I can be..to bring out my potential

Just to give you a small taste

Salam

Mashallah…..very encouraging . May Allah(swt) guide us and make these examples as source of guidace for other muslims… How can we RSVP for these events ?

JAK

My new life resolutions have to do with my sleeping habits…

1- I want to go to bed earlier
2- I want to wake up for Qiyam
3- I want to stay up after fajr

Very difficult but necessary as I feel it will change a lot in my daily life, incha’Allah wa taala. I really want to train myself to control my sleep time…

my new life resolution
1)find a Sufi Shaykh and learn from him
2)not sleeping after Fajr prayer
3)Try to do Witr after Isha every night
4)Be more humble

Cheers!

Please make Dua for this lowly slave

Jazakallah

Elhamdulillah, a good time for new life resolutions is ANY time, and especially immediately after Ramadan. So jazaakum Allahu khayr HalfDate for reminding us to do this.

My resolution is this:

* deliever an AMAZINGLY OUTSTANDING life planning seminar on October 26. to the audience that will feel TOTALY inspired to take their life to a whole new level

* use this experience as a spring board for a series of life planning seminars that will FLOOD communities in central and eastern Europe during 2009…

dear sister latanya please i nead to talk to you please reach me hear mensurmuhajadin@yahoo.com

as salaam alaikum LaTanya. masha allah sister . i was so surprised to come across you and so happy alhamdulillah. a few years Before i reverted to islam, i actually lived with the ojibwa in canada for a while on a rez, i look back now and think that was part of my spiritual journey that got me to where i am now.

i would love to speak wth you more, im a sister by the way.

wow im so amazed, subhana allah.

xxx

Assalamu a’lykum w.w
My main resolution is always the same:
Seek Knowledge.
It has been emphasised greatly in Islam, The prophet Muhamamad (May Allah’s peace and belssings be upon him):
Seeking knowledge is a must for every muslim.
So by fulfilling this, I am Alhumdulilah getting knowledge for deen, this inshaAllah will complete in 2 years, as at the moment I am becoming an Aalim Alhumdulilah.
But, before that, (speaking on behalf of all taalibe- ulooms),respect is important.More inportant than acquiring the knowledge it self! How can anyone expect to benefit from the knoweldge they have been given, if they do not repect their hounorable teachers?! There is a saying that goes : What goes around, comes around.
Which a matter a fact is very true. As same applies here, if one does not respect the giver of knowledge (ie-teachers), they will not gain respect themselves from their own student.
So my very brief message here today is, respect your teachers, only then will you gain the true benefit of ilm.
So the resolution is to try your’s and mine up most best to respect teachers. An a teacher is not only one who you learn from in the schools/colleges/universities or Islamic classes, but they are anyone who gives you even a drop of knowledge.
May Allah (swt) forgive all our shortcomings and give us the tawfeeq and hidayah to act upon what has been taught to us.Ameen thumma Ameen, wa aakirul da’wana wal humdulilahi rabbil Aalimeen.

Duas requested for the whole ummah and this servant.
Wa’alykumsalam w.w

As Salaamu Alaikum,

During Ramadan I received what I think was a message from Allah while reading the Quran. It was simply stated in Surah Barakah. Forgive and overlook in English. We must learn to forgive others as Allah forgives us and overlook their faults. I am working on this as my new life resolution. Keep me in your prayers.

salamu alaikum w.w. sister laTanya i am so happy for you inshallah your family will see the change in you and would want to be like you. Im a sister from iran and I was born in a shiaa family and we ran away from the religion and here in america i reverted to the sunnah of muhammad s.a.w. subhanallah. alhamdulillah. Inshallah every body make duaa for my mother to become a muslim inshallah. My new life resolation drive is…
To stay up after fajr
To memorize the Quran and learn perfect tajweed
read more hadith
be a better mother for my 10month baby girl
be a better wife for my loving husband
make more duaa for the ummah.
inshallah. salamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.

Asalaamu Alaiakum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatu,
Masha’Allah, that was a great talk by sister LaTanya. Thank you for sharing your story with us sister, may Allah keep us all firm on this most straight and perfect path, ameen

Ma’Salaama

a-salam alaikum

Bro Mutah’s talk was GREAT maShaAllah.

It’s a MUST listen, man!!!!

ِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيمِ

Alhamdulillah! Jazakum Allahu Khayran for all who attended the first two events & were able to benefit, insha’Allah. Please stay tuned for event #3, insha’Allah. Patiently waiting to hear the brother’s story. I’m so happy for him, alhamdulillah!

AMIIN!!! (to all your du’aa’s).

Ya Allah! Make us of the righteous ones & give us companions that will take us away from Your Wrath and lead us to Your Pleasure & Paradise. AMIIN.

“By no means shall you attain Al-Birr (piety, righteousness, etc., it means here Allâh’s Reward, i.e. Paradise), unless you spend (in Allâh’s Cause) of that which you love; and whatever of good you spend, Allâh knows it well.”
[Surah: Âl-'Imrân (03); Ayah # 92]

AA,

my resolutionnnnnns:
1. Prepare for the GRE test!
2. Hit the gymmm
3. Take out my contacts every night instead of every month or so…>__>;;
4. Pray Maghrib on time every day
5. sleep more!

Thank You HalfDate for your attention asking me the question via e-mail…

Before i forgot…EID MUBARAK !!

May Allah gives us blessed Ramadan. Amiin. And May He always bless us His guidances and Love

Sure, I’m sad Ramadan is ended. There are some things I wish I could turn back time and fix them. Some things that left regrets. May Allah pour His Mercy upon me.

As Salaamu Alaikum,

Question for life coach:

I need to learn how to truly invest my money wisely. I am confused at this time. I have a 401K however it is almost worthless at this time due to the slump in the economy. What can I do to secure any money I want to save for my retirement (due in seven years).

Hadayai

as salaamu alaykum,

I would like to read Qur’an more and feel a stronger relationship with Allah wa ta’ala. I desire a deeper understanding of Qur’an and pure intentions. I would like to increase my ibad’ah as well.

Salam all..

I listened to Bro Mutah talk, but missed Sis La Tanya’s one coz was busy doing my assignment. Where can I go to get the copy of her talk?

anyways, my resolution:

1)to read awrid as prescribed by my Shaykh after every fajr
2)not sleep after fajr
3)read Quran after maghrib
4)memorize a few juz amma tht I’ve forgotten.. wuwuwu..

Please make dua for this slave.

Wassalam guys! much lovesss and peace outssss

MY SHORT TIME GOAL IS TO GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL, THEN GO TO A GOOD COLLEGE, THEN GRADUATE COLLEGE. THEN FINALLY GET HIGH PAYING JOB AND DONATE TO THE POOR. ALSO MY OTHER GOAL IS TO DO ALL SALAT INCLUDING JUMA IN MY LIFETIME, I ALSO WANT TO LEARN ARABIC SO I COULD FINISH READING THE HOLY QURAN, INSALLAH! P.S I ALSO WANT TO GOOD DEEDS AND BE BUFF/STRONG MUSCULAR.

Salaamu Alaikum wa rahmatulaahi wa barakaatuh,

I pray Allah (SWT) to make me a better person each day. To gain more knowledge about my deen. Alhamdulilah I would consider myself a practicing muslimah, but I have a lot learn insha Allah.

The second thing that I want is to become OBY (Female Doctor) so that I can help my Muslim sisters who are in need of medical treatment but cannot afford. I have Bachelor of pre-med. Money is my number 1 issue to apply for med school for me and is really hard to borrow without interest. I just cry when I listen to some of the sisters who are sick but cannot go to the Doctor bec. they don’t have money (specially OBY). Insha Allah I put my trust in Allah and I want to do things in halal way, whatever Allah wills for me insha Allah. Allah knows my intentions is to help the Muslim women who are in need, and of course others as well who are not Muslims.

LIVE MY LIFE WITH LUCK, AND HAPPINESS. BUT NOT ONLY HERE.. IN THE AFTER LIFE ALSO INSHALLAH!

assalamualaikum all,

my goal: to spend 10 minutes a day reflecting on the Quran and spend the rest of the day implementing it!
And also to be thankful and grateful for all the blessings Allah has bestowed on us.

Dina from Calgary

My short term goal is to get good grades in school. It is my dream that once inshallah I become a teacher I am going to help my parents and the poor. I want to be a better child to my parents. Our parents deserve much more than we think. Todays’ youth saddens me knowing how they disrespected their parents and don’t appreciate them. I want to be inshallah a good wife. Most importantly, I want to be a better of Allah (SWT).

All of us need to work in our Ikhlaq, for indeed the prophet (SWT) said the best of you are those who have the best of manners.

Forgive it is not an exact quote.

Salam Mualiekum

As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuh.

My New Life Resolution:

1. To reach the highest potential that Allah (swt) has given me as a Muslimah.

And I pray that everyone reaches their goals for this year, aameen.

)

My goals:

is to purify my heart and my mind

to be able to read the Quran in arabic

to be able to help someone else achieve their goal…

(God Willing)

As-salaamu Alaikum All -
Short term goals involve finding the pure teachings of Qur’an that are in me to live better with more understanding and love for all. Insha’Allah to make short term daily progress to the long term light of the Sufis.

My goal is,
—-To pray Fajr prayer in Masjid on weekends.

Please pray for me in your Du’as

Wassalam

Austin, TX

Goal: pray tahajjud nightly

ASSALAAM ALIKUM DEAR BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN ISLAM.
I AM VERY PLEASED WITH THIS WEPSITE AND CONTACTING MY MUSLIM UMMAH AROUND THE WORLD. MY GOAL IS TO SPEAK THE TRUTH OF MY UMMAH NOT ONLY BY WORD BUT ALSO BY ACTION WITH WHAT ALLAH (SW)BESTOWED UPON ME. AS WE ALL KNOW IT REALLY HURTS A TRUE BELIEVER WHEN WE SEE OUR YOUNG BROTHERS AND SISTERS WHO HAVE BEING WESTERNIZED AND TURN AWAY FROM THE GUIDANECE NOT BECOUSE THEY WANT TO BUT BECOUSE NOT HAVING A GOOD FRIEND THAT CAN REMIND THEM WHEN THEY FORGOT. SO WHAT IS THE SOLUTION?? I HAVE ONE QUESTION, CAN A MUSLIM SISTER GIVE DAWAH TO A MUSLIM BROTHER? PLEASE RESPOND ME VIA MY EMAIL INSHA’ALLAH. JAZAKUM ALLAH KHAIRA MAY ALLAH SHOWER HIS MERCY UPON ALL OF YOU WHO ARE WORKING ON THIS SITE. AND INSHA’ALLAH I WILL BE READY TO HELP WITH WHAT EVER I CAN…..

Salam,

Goal is to establish in my job and let my dad relax from his job now. May Allah help me and give me strength to serve my parents with best of my abilities. (Aamin)

W’salam

Fear Allah (S.A.W)
Be satisfied with what I have.
Worship Allah as if I see HIM.

goal: keep up on my prayers as much as possible (on time) in spite of work
memorize another sura
keep in better touch with my muslim friends whom i don’t see at work or school

Audhu billahi minashaytaan irRajeem.
Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem.
Asalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu.

hmmm….Short Term Goals?:
Insha’Allah t’ala……
To be on time! (Starting with each prayer).
To get organized (i.e. paperwork!, paperwork!, paperwork!)
Prioritize my daily tasks, to weekly, monthly, semi-yearly, & yearly.
Insha’Allah khayr.

Sincerer with Allah SWT so I can get His Mercy, Forgiveness, Love, & see His Face, insha’Allah.

……………………………………………all for the sake of Allah SWT, insha’Allah.

I love you all fisabilillah,
Sis. LaTanya
Asalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu.

To have strong taqwa
Pray more
To be more thankful, find peace, within the blessings in my life.

Resolutions Post Ramadhaan….

1. Carry on with my memorisation and complete another 10 Juz by next Ramadhaan… (Ameen)
2. Seek more and more knowledge
3. Implement what I learn
4. Help more in the Da’wah activities that I am a part of…
5. Most important: Develop an outstanding relationship with my parents (its great as is) but take it to the NEXT LEVEL

I pray Allah swt gives all of you the success at achieving your post-Ramadhaan goals, Ameen Ya Rabb!

To pay off all my loans, please ask dua for me, I started a biz with 11000USD loan and now the biz is closed and working while trying to pay the loan.
I have no idea or no way of how to pay which has to be done within 18months while monthly investment return too is being added in addition to 11k which i am yet to pay so eventually it will be like 13-14k, i either pay it now through some means and avoid the investment return being accumulated or pay all in 18 months. God I just need a way to pay it off and please help me to do so. ameen.

salam alaykum
as muslims may Allah help us through.you are doing great.just rushing to drop this,will comment prpperly later.
ma salam

Short term goals…I would like for my husband and I to finish our degrees and get jobs so that we can save enough money to go for Hajj in the next few years. Insha’Allah.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

My short term goals…

Insha Allah, I would like to enjoy the process of preparing gift for 70 orphans for this coming Eid-ul-Adha (Hajj).

Insha Allah, I can’t wait to take the gifts personally to them and share the joy of Eid with children who have little or nothing, and to make a difference in their lives by making them feel special with an individually packed and named gift at Eid.

May Allah make my intention sincerely only to please Him, Ameen.

Ahahah.
MashaAllah bro, you’re the expert of public relation!

May Allah reward you greatly for all these campaigns, indeed

Short term goals…
- Finish my degree
- Enroll in postgrad program next year
- Learn Arabic
- Learn Arabic
- Learn Arabic
- Learn Ushl-Fiqh then
- Start a startup company

Asalam Alaikum brothers & sisters,

My short term goal, is to establish myself financially, so that I may InshAllah help my muslim brethren thru whatever financial or intellectual knowledge I can utilize in order to empower the Ummah, May Allah accept my efforts although they’ll be a drop in the ocean.

JazakAllah

Salam Alaikum.

my , goal will be to hifz quran , although i am old , but want to try as much as possible , please advise.

My resolution is to be consistent on the small things…
1. Praying my sunnahs with each salaah
2. Getting and keeping my house neat and tidy as a gift for my husband
3. Being a good teacher for my children and helping them grow in their deen each day
4. Exercising every day so I feel strong and healthy to do the good Allah wants me to do

As sallam o alikum,

my short term goals are a lot:

1) pay attention to my prayers
2) make dhikr as often as possible
3) become a better daughter (help my parents financially if needed but more importantly help them with houseworks etc)
4) read Quran everyday
5) start tajweed classes and stick with it
6) keep on top of my arabic classes
7) adopt a healthier life style
fast at least 3 days a month
9) don’t backbite or talk back
10) STOP WATCHING TV!

obviously do everything in order to gain the pleasure of Allah and to refine my character so that Allah loves me … inshallah

Strengthen my faith
Pray more and be thankful for all the small things and blessings in my life, and find peace within myself.
And of course, as superficial as it may sound, just be a better person, student, daughter, friend and do the best that I can do.

Assalaam Alaikum dear sisters and brothers,

my goal in life is to worship Allah all my life, and to be among those that are going to revive Allah’s religon from the moral degeneration it is facing today. We are just playing with Allah’s religon rightnow, and trying to live our lives to fit in with the kuffar.Allah does not need any of us, and He can so easily replace us with even better people than us that will even love Him so much more than us and live their lives to please Him. Allah’s religon is going to be revived whether we want it or not, so it is now our decision. Do we wanna be among the people that revive Allah’s religon or do we wanna be among those people that are going to be humiliated and raised with the kuffar on the day of judgement just coz we lived our lives copying them, and trying to fit in with them. We should always remember that all that we do in the way of Allah is for our own benefit. And the decision is clearly ours. The first step we should take to this goal is to change what is in our hearts. And make what is in our hearts be reflected through our limbs by acting it out. And the next step would be to teach it to others and also encourage so many others to do the same. I pray that Allah may have mercy on our ummah and forgive us our sins, and not replace us with others. I pray that Allah may make all of us among those people that will revive His deen and may He the almighty protect us from the punishments of the grave and the hell fire.

Assalamualaikum everyone,
its been a while since i got a half date email, i was missing them!
Umm, so my goals now are:
>keep up the high levels of Taqwa present in Ramadhan,
>keep qadha fasts from Ramadhan in this blessed month of Shawwal,
>Keep praying all Salahs on time (this is my WEAKEST area),
>try not to waste too much time on the net, and reading an overload of books!
>do well in my GCSE’S (Insha’Allah) :s ,
And lastly, but probably most importantly:
>keep my en-suite squeaky clean!

Remember me in your duas please, as without them i dunno if i’ll be able to fulfill these…
Wassalam

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assalam
masha allah when i see all the bros n sis around the world enjoying the bond of islam, i seize to feel alone because here it is rather tough; like for eg. i work in a muslim school but r struggling to survive as we r persecuted here. asking help from bro n sis in islam here has done little bt our tawakul in allah keep us go. howver people r doin everythng to shut us down. we need help from askin doah for us to financial help or i thnk the candle of light will fianlly extinguish. make doa my ummah because my heart hurts to think that everythng we have build will end because of selfish people. if there is a way to help financially please halfdate contact me.
sis forever bonded together by islam,
dove

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assalaam alaikum

My short term Goal is to learn how to read the holy Quran more effectively

salamu alaikum 10resolutions
1. I want to pray my salah ontime right when the athan comes on
2. I want to pray all the sunnah salah
3. I want to pray 2 rakaa for woodu
4. I want to read quran every day with learning perfect tajweed
5. I want to memorize the quran from the last jozz
6. I want to fast mondays and thursdays, at least once a week
7. I really want to stop back biting i know every women suffers with that fitnah
8. I need to keep up with the housework and all the baby’s needs
9. I wanat to be a better mother and a better wife
10. I want to purify my niyyah and keep away from hidden shirk inshallah.
May Allah keep the ummah on the right path and make every effort count and love us and make us of those who are his best creation. AMEEEEEN

As salamu Alaikum!

My short term goal inshallah:
1. Register Muslim Group at my High School
2. Pray Tahajjath
3. Pray Fajr when Adathaan goes and dont go to sleep
4. Have the BEST manners
5. Always remember Allah
6. Memorise 10 lines from the Quran everyday & impliment

Asalaamualaykum warahmatullah

I have so many resolutions, subhanAllah, below are 5 I am trying to focus on and achieve then inshAllah will move on to others:

1. Read Quran every day, even if it be a line – to keep connection with the Quran
2. Try & pray more sunnah prayers, along side my fard of course
3. To make duaa before sleeping, and recommended Dhikr & Surahs,and reflect on my day each night,and to generally make duaa more and Dhikr Allah
4. Try & deattach myself from this world,and focus on the Akhirah,and focus on more important things in life – serving Allah,His Religion,etc
5. Most Importantly, purify my intentions and ensure what Im doing is for Allah and to earn His Pleasure and Reward

may Allah help us

organize my finances
start a business

salamou 3alaykom
All I want is my faith back
here is my story

In this Ramadan, I really wanted to do more for Allah, so I started reading Quran, praying the nawafel (extra prayers) and going to qiyam el layl and I was very happy. My du3a was like Allah I want to spend my hole life serving You. But in the last 15 days of Ramadan, I started having weird thinkings about Allah and Islam, like if God really existed and things like that. So I got really scared because I started doubting and thought this would cancel my faith and that I became a kafira. I went crazy in my head and I used to cry all the time but I couldn’t fell my faith in Allah like before. And what scared me more was the fact that all this happened in the month of Ramadan wich is a blessing month.

Now, 20 days after EID, I Don’t have these thinkings anymore, but I fell that I don’t have faith anymore. I force myself to believe in Allah, but I just don’t feel it anymore. Like before when I used to say InchAllah or Hamdoulillah, I really used to mean it, but today I doesn’t mean anything to me. I really want my faith back and please Help me. I’m trying to find what could I have done wrong to be punished like this. I have talked to my mother about this problem (she is a good muslim), and she said that faith comes and goes and this is maybe an ibtilaa (test) from Allah. I stick to the idea that Allah is Wadood and that he loves us and that one day, I will have faith again. But now, I’m like If I’m wrong and Allah exists, I’m going to hell because I’m a kafira because I doubt.

I hope that you have understood my problem, please help me before it’s too late. Sorry for my bad english actually it’s not my first language

Wa salamou 3alaykom wa rahmatou allahi wa barakatouhouback

My goals are…
* To be consistent in all good deeds
* To pray every salat on time
* To stop time wasting
* To be more patient
* To turn to Allah in every situation and put total trust and reliance in him
* To read the Quran everyday without fail
* To be a better mother and a good example to my children
* To do more voluntary fasts and salats
* To read and write Arabic
* To have good suspicion of people and stop backbiting
* To purify my intention and to change myself to better my character
* To thikr
* To stop watching t.v

These are just a few things that i would love to change and be more consistent with. Sometimes i wish that i could have someone there to correct me when i wrong, waste time or leave off tomorrow what i should have done today.
I am at a time in my life where my to oldest are becoming teenagers in the land of kuffar and my son and daughter are in need of good muslim friends.
My younger 2 need good muslim friends to play with.
If any one knows of teachers who can help my children with their quran and arabic and is not expensive please let me know.
Please make dua for me when you pray.
walaykum salam warahmatullahi wa barakatu

Please let me know when i can buy my bookmark

salaamu alaikum
my goals: to be the best mum and wife that i can be
and to be consistent in my ibaaadah. shukran for a lovely website

Asalam O aliekum, my brothers and sisters in Islam
My short term goal at the moment is to persue a degree of Alim (Darse Nizami) from Jamia Ashrafia, Lahore, Pakistan which is a much respected school of the Hanafi fiqh.
Wish me luck as i will need it for the 3 year course which includes detail study of the Quran, Hadeeth and the Hanafi fiqh.
Jazakallahu Khairan

My short tearm goals are to practice islam more, to pray the 5 times a day on time and to not do anything haram or watch haram on the televishion,

my long tem goals are to go to pakistan and get married to my engadgement partner, to go back to college to get a degree in computers and to retake shaddah in the masjid may allah bless everyone.

please pray for my uncle who died as a non beliver please that his life of the grave wont be hard. He died last week on a motor bike accidnet in england and he had heart attack on the bike and hit a brick wall the funelal is tommorow which is friday 23rd october 2008 inshallah

thankyou for having a great site may allah bless everyone who is involved in this site inshallah ameen

fatima xx

I plan to get an online degree on Islamic Studies & Law, inshAllah.

Salaams, this is to the anonymous who asked about hifz,
the most important things you can do is keep trying, and work to your ability, if you can learn a page a day, learn it, but if you can’t, just do what you can. work at a good pace, where you can keep up with revising what you have already learnt, and you can retain the new parts that you have learnt aswell.
Also, trust me, there will be times when you wish you didn’t start it, or youjust think “its toooo hard!” but don’t give up, just keep going!
And finally, enjoy it, because when you finish, (if you’re like me) you’ll miss learning the new parts, so make the most of it,
keep it sincere,
Wassalam.

Hope the advice was helpful, (Insha’Allah)

As-salamu aleykoom.
you know what they say: “Short-Term Goals Make Long-Term Champ” In near future I would like to become better muslim and person in generally. I would like to give more thought to my deen, do lot more within my dawa’ duties, loose 5kg, get regular tennis and gym, start writing my book These might not be that much ambitious, but then again, a journey of a hundred miles begins with single step.

all the best and Allah Ma3ak
Amina

InshaAllah I plan to study and research about Islamic Finance & Investments in order to get a deeper understanding of the hollowness of this riba based society and to be informed of the various halal alternatives.

Al salamu alaykum

I came from the list NapoleonOutlawed
Napoleon told me that you need to know some of my short term goals before you release his last online-event!

Some of my early intentions
I want to upload napoleons videos on youtube and other sharing websites, because I found many got positively affected by even videos. and some of people converted because of it. Al hamdullilah

So if I can put my hands on Mutah’s videos I will proceed my goal, and in this case I am asking some help!!

Other Goal, I am on working learning Quran, wish for me help in completing it and making me from ones who work with it

Thank you,
Al salamu Alaykum….

Assalamu alaikum.

Constant health issues/illness is making me irritable and short-tempered. I’m hoping to cope with it in better ways; by exchanging smiles and salams more and in general, to be more pleasant and make it easier for others to be around me, InshaAllah!!!

Wassalam.

Bismillah.

To sister: RAHMA SELMI SAID

Waalaikum assalam wa rahmatullah,

A Sheikh once advised me the following things for removing waswas/doubts related to faith:

(1) Seek refuge in Allah constantly (Auzubillaahi minash shaitaanir rajeem).

(2) Whenever the doubts come (or even as a regular practice), repeat this: آمَنْـتُ بِاللهِ وَرُسُـلِه
Transliteration: “Aamantu billaahi wa Rusulih”
Translation: “I have believed in Allah and His Messenger”
InshaAllah you’ll feel calmer and the doubts will flee.

(3) Seek Allah’s forgiveness & whatever wrong thoughts enter your mind, you must renounce them. Means you should fight off the thoughts, not believe them. In your heart you must know that these doubts are only waswasa from shaitan and not at all true. So please keep asking Allah to forgive you & to protect you from the evil waswas.

(4) Make dua to Allah to renew your faith & to protect & preserve your eman.
Allah’s Messenger (peace & blessings of Allah be upon him) has said:
“Faith wears out in the heart of any one of you just as clothes wear out, so ask Allah to renew the faith in your hearts.”

(5) Recite Surah Falaq & Surah An-Naas often & in general do your best to adhere to the deen.

InshaAllah, you’ll find benefit in the above.

If you need a sister to talk to, or discuss this further, please feel free to take my Email address from the admin of this website & Email me.

Make Allah protect you!

Wassalam,
Sister P

My short term goals:
-Develop more khushoo in salah
-Reduce (unnecessary talking)
and guard tongue from that which Allah Hates
-Become more organized, make schedules (in both ‘dunya’ and ‘deen’) and make plans such as these to better myself as a Muslim, and as a student…
-Stay consistent with deeds, even if they may seem ‘small’, and of course firstly (and lastly) stay sincere to Allah Azza wa Jal, guard myself from anything that would affect this sincerity to Allah:
“It is reported from as-Soosee that he said: What Allaah desires from the actions of His creation is Ikhlaas and nothing else”

salamo alikom wa rahmutullahi wa barakatuh ,

my goal is to keep learning my deen so that allah takes me nearer to him inshallah. and bee the best person i can with every living beeing in this world , this comes firts (the most important thing in my life)
then my second goal is to get as good grades i can in school because i want to be a doctor in the future inshallah.

my good protect you ,
jazaakom allahu khair wa barakallahu feekom.

salam, my goals are to continue to seek more knowlede of Islam, make it possible to do haj, help muslims around the globe by charities in their need

assalam alaikom wa rahmatu allah wa barakatuh

Me and my twinsister Rima Klai is trying to invite Mutah Beale to Sweden, we have made contact with a larg organisaton in stockhoml and hope they will agree with uss and dicide to invite him, we are making dua so that Napoleon comes to Sweden, inshallah they get answered. ALLAH IS GREAT!
Yesterday i learned about the hijab, how we are going to wear it wright. And i realised wrong things i weared with the hijab, allhamduliallah now im going to shop clothes that Allah loves and want uss (the muslim sisters) to wear. I want to learn more about my deen, i want to learn the quran and i want to be a stronger muslim. And my work wisch is my studding, i want to get good grades.
This are some of my short term goals.

Assalam Alaykoum Sisters and Brothers!

My Goal is to become a good wife and a good mother to educate my children to become the leaders of the ummah of tomorrow, and establish a Khalifah on earth.

Some may say i am a dreamer, With the help of Allah swt everything is possible.

United we stay, United we win.

Your sister Siam.

.As’salamu 3aleikom.My Goal is to win the plesure of Allah and in final in sha Allah the Heaven, Ya Rab help all muslim to get paradise.

Bismillah …

Dreams are made of vision in a world of mutual respect and tolerance.
Manifesting dreams depends on all peoples of the world seeing the shared vision of peace with equality for all, regardless of gender, race or creed.
“Some say that I am a dreamer – but I’m not the only one.”

One Love – Salaams,
Sam / Zahid

Asalamu alaikum,

As long as my ultimate goal is to be in a place where those who succeed reside in forever- in endless bounty, any subsidary goal is alright. Here on earth, I have a dream to pursue medicine as well as insha Allah learn and preach the deen.

Ma’asalama

“What are the challenges that you or friends face when
pursuing a dream or implementing a change in life?”

Some challenges include:

1. Bad organizational skills/time management…making it hard to implement the changes and easy to procrastinate.
2. “Dreaming” without putting an action plan
3. Making a plan that’s too hard to implement – expecting a big change quickly
4. Inconsistency/not following through
5. Blaming things on others or environment around instead of taking responsibility for not getting where we want to get

Allaah knows best.

Assalammu’alaikum…

Bismillah. One of the hardest thing is the challenges that Allah puts along the way to test us, to see if the intention to change or to pursue that dream is lillahita’alah. Sometimes, these challenges make me want to give up and then I begin to question why I wanted to pursue it in the first place. But more importantly, the fact that Allah put that good thought in my head in the first place becomes the strongest motivation for me to go ahead with my plans.

Wallahua’lam.

BISMILLAH……………wow only 1 challenge can i list em as i remember them? well one being i have no financial support although im married.. we’re poor people n its hard for poor people to get ahead in life.. i cant get a job cuz i have no experience or college.. i cant go to college cuz i cant afford to pay.. u know of course people have told me about taking out a loan but cmon interest is usury remember? but i hear all types of stuff like this is america u gotta do what u gotta do n stuff like that but i dont know, bad enough i have my weaknesses in my faith but to add something i dont even want to do to the list of sins? cmon!.. my biggest thing is knowing what kind of limits is ALLAH giving me here? the quran is a guide til the end of time but i mean really the west especially america is disgusting i really cant find a way out of it… n then theres the hijab thing.. yea in my hijab i look very foreign, i dont wear the solid colored skirts n blazers like some other women. those sisters are skinny(er) and u cant see nothing on them but i am quiet the opposite i am a big woman n i need to cover a certain way that american clothes dont do… n then not to mention my anti social agoraphobic personality various forms of child abuse have left me with a high level of anxiety and self consciousness i just dont deal well with people in general im very closed off.. the only time i can shine through as myself is when im left to complete anonymity and in the place of my home .. people think theyve made things so much better by modernizing everything but quiet the contrary i cant remember a time in history where things were worse … I SEEK REFUGE IN ALLAH from the torment of the grave the hellfire and the dajjal…………. by the way things look his shackles are being loosened even as we speak…………

i think it is trying to balacne time with your daily life. It is a hard thing to do.

Assalamu alaykum wr wb

I want to make Masjid Al Aqsa free with my kids and other moslems inshaallah. I am praying for that 11 years and hope inshaallah that we will do that.
The worst thing I can see on this dunya are kids, women and older crying during wars in their countries and prayers who are not able to pray in Holy masjid!!
Also I wish to keep my heart clean till the end of my life.

With nafs and with shaytan is easy to fight. But with other people is very hard!!!
Even you read Qur’an and pray and do “hard” things peaople are still there to make you crazy. Even u say Aozobillah min As-shaytaan Er-rajeem peaople are still there near you. (talking about moslems).

I wish them all became good, with clean hearts without any sharr or bad thinking.
Only with clean hearts we will rich our goals. Allahu 3alam.

Assalamu alaykum

Assalam’alaikum warah matul lahi wabar katuhu

Dear brothers and sisters.

I was always wondering, where to express what I really feel to do.

now alhumdulillah I got a chance to share.

thnx for this.

my dream is to bring people especially Muslims on one platform of Faith.

as I belongs to Pakistan where majority is illiterate.

what all i’ve felt when i went for doing some research is that most of the research has been available in english , arabic, farsi,which is more convinient.

my dream is to establish an institute, which provide and make people to come and learn the languages which can help them to do research and become literate by their own. and this should be free of cost.

but the whole pattern to teach this is to make people aware of ISLAM .

so they could see things under Islamic perspective.

the only fee which i wanted to ask for is to spread the message of Islam the way Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h taught us to spread.. through different means.

In my view, media is the main source, through which we can take advantage.

due to less awareness among people about their rights in our society . specially where i live.. make them stay back.

this hesitation should be rectify to make them come up with new ideas and methods..

I hope my dream will come true..

Problem:

the only problem which i am facing is to convince people to help me in this project.

when I personally don’t feel that individually i could do this.. and inshaAllah one day by the grace of Allah i’ll be successful..

so all i need is your prayer and pray for me that Allah swt keep me on straight path..

fi aman Allah

jazakAllah khair

What are the challenges that you know one may face when pursuing a dream or implementing a change?

The challenges one may face when pursuing a dream or implementing a change vary depending on what that dream or change is. However, the overcoming of a particular obstacle may almost guarantee one’s success in the pursue of a dream or implementation of a change and that is determination.

I believe it is almost always in our heads. I believe nothing is impossible if one is determined to accomplish it. I don’t believe anything has ever happened without this determination and nothing ever will. All things seem to be impossible, but anyone with enough determination and will can accomplish anything.

Our biggest challenge happens to be tackling our families..whether our dream revolves around deen or whether it be an academic dream, we all find our families are one of the biggest difficulties we face. Maybe it’s us being the ‘next generation’ and finding their ideas old and ancient…Nonetheless for myself and my friends, having to handle family is the biggest fear and challenge!

Hmmmm it looks like all of us have different goals.
Once when UMMAH start to work on the same goal it be wonderful time inshaallah
I know meny people with different projects. very good projects. They face problems with people. No one want help them; some moslems started to make SAME SAME projects just to be leaders not folowers
We all want to be leaders!! We should be leaders in helping others.

Jazakumullahu khair

The most difficult thing about change for me, is break and creating new habits. I read a book that says that your habits create your life. I also, had a friend that told me that, “Old habits are just like a warm bed, easy to get into and hard to get out.” I am convinced that philosophies create your habits. And so does our perception on different things in life. Remember this…Your philosophy creates your attitude, your attitude creates your actions and your results creates your life!

Salaam,

The first point I’d like to make is that the best leaders are the best followers. We should all strive to be “Go-Givers”, and “serving leaders” to lay a strong foundation for any project we take on.

I’d say the biggest challenge I’ve faced when attempting to develop community projects(such as Mosaic Sisterhood of Islam, and a youth group) is the unwillingness(on part of the community in general) to change.
I am a convert to Islam, and so my vision is a more unified, diverse, judgment-free Umma that adapts to the times in order to embrace more people in to the gentle folds of our beautiful religion.
Since converts do not usually have a middle eastern or Islamic background or culture, we kind of develop our own, using Islam as the core and base. In this situation it is difficult and at times very frustrating to break past others’ deeply ingrained cultural background to uncover the true meaning of togetherness, community and sister/brotherhood.
So without further complaining, which wasn’t my intent by the way, I would just like to encourage all of you, brothers and sisters, to reflect deeply on the pure, perfect Islam and to move forward in to a more welcoming and productive community; a people that moves with the times but is also a pillar of truth and justice and a shining example for the world. God-willing adapting this view will spread the message of our beloved Prophet Muhammed(s) more fervently, like wild fire, igniting the hearts of people that have been cold for too long, and will be an outstanding sign to Allah that we are indeed ready for His Guided One to march us in to a peaceful and just future.

May Allah accept our prayers

JUSTINA

As Salaamu Alaikum,

Some times we get in our own way. We are afraid of trying something new. Make excuses, etc. When we get past that phase we can do well. I am learning to trust in Allah for all I need.

ma salaam
Hadayai

I think we all face financial and time limitations and these are big discouragements in the way of our dreams.

salamu alaikum. when i learn something new about my religion, i rush to fallow it, but after a while i strugle with dealing with my nafs and feeling lazy, so i male dua so that may allah make this easy for me, and alhamdulillah he always does. may ALLAH reward us for all our efforts ameen.

My mummy was more like the one who didnt want me to pursue my one of my dreams. I wanted to go into the biological sciences but she insisted i do Engineering. It was a great battle, but i can only pray to Allaah to ease all my affairs.

Aslam alkum,
As a new convert not long ago i wanted to become the best as i could so i practice islam to the pinch of salt hehe i mean i did everything to make myself perfect in islam i would pray fard and sunnah and witr i would read 4 or 5 books on islam a day stay awake all night to learn qur’an and learn about islam on paltalk about 6 hours a day and everything you can imagine about islam i was doing then i found after about 3 months i just slowley stopped practicing i stopped praying i sleeping for longer hours and i really felt deppressed because i could not keep this lifestyle for long time. So then i make duaa’s and talk to sisters and watch islamic vidoes and nasheeds to help me feel bad thati have stopped and then i will make more duaa to allah (swt) and ask him to have mercy and peace upon me an my fellow brothers and sisters in islam then i will get up and say alahmdullilah, mashallah alah (swt) always listens and acts upon my duaa’s inshallah,

my adivce is for new muslims dont rush into being the best you can from the start take small steps to rich the top of the mountian because if you take big steps to get to the top your legs will get tierd and you wont have much intention to get to the top and want to give up but if you take your time and go slowly to get to the top and ask for help from allah (swt) then he can help you reach your goal but dont rush yourself because you wont be able to abtain your standers after a long time

so inshallah i hope everyone reflects upon this and think of this as a new start inshallah may allah bless me and all the muslims and muslimahs out there and help the non muslims open there hearts to he one who created them inshallah ameen

take care wa salam fatima xx

Aslam al alkum
Also my new life resolution is:
1) To go to sleep early and wake up early,
2) To purify my intentions and learn the translation of the arabic salah (prayer),
3) To read more Qur’an and learn sura al nas,
4) To pray 5 times everyday on time,
5) To get my degree in ICT in college,

inshallah

wa salam xx

What sort of question should I ask???

my new life resolution is to figure out what my new life resolution is

Asalamu alakum all, i can say that one challenge that i face when trying to implement a change in life: is having a hard time leaving the ordinary. It so hard to change when your so comfortable.However, when you know that you have to make this change, you will strive and do all that it takes to make your change,and reach that goal. So, you can take it one day at a time and sooner the later your almost there.Therefore, it’s that much closer then your starting distance.

Asalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu,

Alhamdulillah, I was able to catch a portion of the Life Coach Event on Sat. (work)….And I was encouraged most by the simple fact that whatever endeavors we decide to undertake, we should begin with a small step. Amongst other important details, of course.

Jazakum Allahu Khayran for this great assistance in helping me in my life, HalfDate! Amiin!

My du’aa’ for each Muslim on this page, their families, and the rest of the Ummah.
Insha’Allah.

Asalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu,
Sis. LaTanya

Asalamu Alaykum,

I would like to comment about sister La Taya’s story.

Mansha’Allah what a great story of hope. I’m trully happy for you La Taya and I ask Allah sw that he protects and keeps guiding you to the right path forever and always. It’s inspiring that you have defeated your struggle with alcahol…it gives me hope personally because my brother who I love dearly is struggling with Alcohol and drugs. There are a lot of times when the entire family almost loses hope and we just want to give up on him. It’s so hard and depressing to see how much someone close to you struggles with such disgusting things like alcahol and drugs but not have the power to make them just stop. To hear your story gives me so much hope and encouragement. I ask you and all other Muslims to pray for my brother and those who are on the wrong path and those who are struggling with inner demons and temptations…Insha’Allah one day I hope to see my brother say that he cannot even stand the smell of alcahol.

Wasalamu Alaykum Warahmatulahi Wabarakatu

alsalam alikum wa rahmatu allah wa barakatuh ..

From Hopelessness to Happiness , it’s really good title for this inspiring story , mashallah la taya , ur story about how did u convert to islam means that there are still goodness sides in The Ummah , and inshallah hopefully that one day islam will be the only religion on the earth ,and may allah give the power for all who are struggling to find the light and the right way .. ameen
Jazakum allah khair