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		<title>Dua Drive</title>
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Make dua, make dua, make dua!
I LOVE to eat lot of watermelon.. One day I had this strong craving for one and looked through all the change I had in a mug, after counting all the quarters and dime…it came to $3.75. Disheartened, I knew it will be more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><span style="color: green;">Alhamdulillah, together we can get things done.</span></h2>
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<h1>Make dua, make dua, make dua!</h1>
<p style="text-align: center; font-size: large"><span style="color: #0000ff;">I LOVE to eat lot of watermelon.. One day I had this strong craving for one and looked through all the change I had in a mug, after counting all the quarters and dime…it came to $3.75. Disheartened, I knew it will be more than 5 bucks, since I saw that price tag 3 days ago. I still thought I’d give it a try and might be able to buy a slice at least. I walked towards the grocery store and started repeating the dua that:</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center; font-size: large"><span style="color: #0000ff;"> ” Oh Allah! Make the cost of watermelon under my budget.”</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center; font-size: large"><span style="color: #0000ff;"> Lo! And Behold, I felt weak in my knees when I saw the price tag…with tax it turned out to be exactly $3.75=)</span></p>
<p><strong>Month: Jumada Al-Akhira1429/June 2008 (end date June 25th)</strong></p>
<p>Dua (supplication) is one of the most powerful tools we have as Muslims. Yet, often neglected, as Omar (RA) said, &#8220;I&#8217;m not worried about whether my dua is being answered or not, but I&#8217;m worried about not making duas.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, in this DateDrive, can you:</p>
<ol>
<li>Make a dua for someone you know. (<a href="http://halfdate.com/2008/06/12/dua-drive/#comment">Click here</a> to post your dua, if you want to remain anonymous, just enter <a href="mailto:noname@you.com">noname@you.com</a> as your email)</li>
<li>Share your personal dua stories</li>
<li>Join the Dua Team</li>
</ol>
<p>Help us to achieve our goals, to collect 70 duas, to get at least 7 dua stories, and to recruit 33 members for the Dua Team.</p>
<p>***We didn’t pay attention to the end time of the ThePoint campaign, so it ENDED PREMATURELY***<br />
If you believe that the Dua Team is a great service and still want to join, post a comment below saying you want to join, if we get 8 members, in-sha-allah, we will form the team.<br />
Click here &#8212;&#8211; [link removed, drive is closed, thanks] to say, &#8220;I WANT TO JOIN&#8221;</a>.<br />
Anyway, the deadline is June, 25th, 2008 11:59 California Time.</p>
<p><strong>Dua Volunteers Team</strong></p>
<p>When you join this team, you agree to make dua for requesters at one of the times when duas are most hopefully accepted, e.g. last hour of Friday, last third of the night, while fasting, traveling, or during sujood, after drinking Zamzam, etc. (we are compiling a list for you when you join the team.)</p>
<p><strong>How it works?</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>To make sure you are committed, you have to donate $3 <strong>*offline* (*credit card not required*)</strong> to join the volunteer mailing list (requesting duas is free, but volunteering is not free :P).</li>
<li>Once you pay, we will add you to the mailing list</li>
<li>After you sign up, check your email to confirm your subscription to the mailing list</li>
<li>From time to time, you will be receiving requests for duas in your email</li>
<li>After you make the dua for the requester, you post a comment to acknowledge that you made the dua</li>
</ol>
<p><strong>Crazy! Why would I pay to join?</strong> Because you want to:</p>
<ol>
<li>be reminded to make dua, which is an act of worship</li>
<li>be humbled to Allah</li>
<li>be thankful to Allah when you are aware of how requesters are being tested</li>
<li>be kind to your fellow Muslims who are requesting your duas</li>
<li>be prayed by angels (the hadith says, the angels pray the same for you when you pray for others)</li>
<li>be part of the solution for the Ummah</li>
<li>be &#8230; name your own reason</li>
</ol>
<p>*If you can&#8217;t pay online, NO PROBLEM, WE MADE IT EASY FOR YOU.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://halfdate.com/dua"><strong>Etiquettes When Asking Allah</strong></a></p>
<p><strong>Some statements from the Sunnah:</strong></p>
<p>The Prophet (SAW) said: &#8220;Nothing is more honourable to Allah the Most High than du`a.&#8221; [Sahih al-Jami` no.5268].</p>
<p>The Prophet (SAW) said: &#8220;The most excellent worship is du`a.&#8221; [Sahih Al-Jami` no. 1133]</p>
<p>The Prophet (SAW) said: &#8220;The most incapable person is the one who does not make du`a, and the most miserly person is the one who does not give salaam.&#8221; [Sahih Al-Jami` no. 1055]</p>
<p>The Prophet (SAW) said: &#8220;If one does not ask Allah, He will get angry with him.&#8221; [Sahih al-Jami` no.2414]</p>
<p>من سره أن يستجيب الله له عند الشدائد و الكرب ، فليكثر الدعاء في الرخاء</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alhamdulillah, TOGETHER, Allah made this project possible.

A Message From Sister Linda:
As Salaam&#8217;alaykum
All Praise and Thanks to Allah.  The TSG project is a success for many good reasons:
1. The hard work of the HalfDate organization. May Allah shower each member with many blessings for their generosity.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><span style="color: green;">Alhamdulillah, TOGETHER, Allah made this project possible.</span></h2>
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<p><strong>A Message From Sister Linda:</strong><br />
As Salaam&#8217;alaykum</p>
<p>All Praise and Thanks to Allah.  The TSG project is a success for many good reasons:</p>
<p>1. The hard work of the HalfDate organization. May Allah shower each member with many blessings for their generosity.<br />
2. The gift from Allah of the sisterhood and brotherhood in Islam. Many Muslims worked hard to help this project succeed.<br />
3. The good will and generosity of Muslims who opened their hearts and gave their money for the sake of Allah and for our Muslim teachers and children!</p>
<p>I am deeply humbled that so many would choose to help with the TSG project even though most did not know me, yet they made an act of faith and helped. I am also so grateful for the many duas said for the project&#8217;s success!</p>
<p>HalfDate.com has demonstrated that when Muslims unite&#8230;we become strong and purposeful and can accomplish good. It is my hope and I will be saying duas that HalfDate sponsor many more worthy projects that give wonderful opportunities for many to do good, benefit others, and most importantly to serve Allah.</p>
<p>I know I am ready anytime Halfdate calls upon me to help them with future projects.  I hope you also will be ready to help.</p>
<p>Salaams,<br />
Sister Widad (Linda Delgado)<br />
MWP Publisher</p>
<p><strong>Update June 10, 2008:</strong></p>
<p>Last donations received were from: Qamar, Joaquin, Syed, Imran, Fatima, RUSHMagazine, and several offline donors, including attendees of <a href="http://www.care4converts.com">Care4Converts.com</a> picnic.</p>
<p>A special donation was received in memory of Umm Abdulkarim Mai, may Allah be merciful on her.</p>
<p><strong>The Count As of This Update</strong><br />
-Online donations: $1,097.77<br />
-LivingHalal matching: $265.85  (for donations received between May 24-31)<br />
-Survey donations: 82 survyes<br />
-Magazine donations: 1 subscription<br />
-Comments donations: rounded to $29<br />
-Offline donations: expected over $300<br />
With this surplus, we can also cover Paypal credit card fees, alhamdulillah.</p>
<p><strong>Observations:</strong><br />
The goal of HalfDate is not simply faciliate a cause, but also study how to improve non-profit work. So, in-sha-Allah, after each drive we are going to debrief our findings and lesson learned from the drive.</p>
<p>This Sisters Drive, was our 2nd drive to collect donations for a project. The first drive duration was set for one week only, and alhamdulillah, we&#8217;ve collected over $5K. This drive was set for a month long, and guess what, the majority of donations came the last minute.</p>
<p><strong>Donation Waves</strong><br />
-First wave came in after a brother sent to his CISCO List<br />
-Second wave when a brother mentioned Sister Linda&#8217;s story in a Jumaa khutbah<br />
-Third wave from offline events: Care4Converts picnic<br />
-Last, an email sent out after the drive official end date, as the hadith says, &#8220;If the Jugement day is about to start, and in your hand a plant, so if you can plant it before the Judgement day start, then DO IT.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Special comments People sent with the donation:</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;Special thanks to Br Imran Quresh for forwarding the info to sv-pak list. Keep up the good work.&#8221; -S.A.</p>
<p>&#8220;I just donated $187.92 to bring your total to $1200. Please prey for me and my family.&#8221; -Q.H.</p>
<p>&#8220;Miss F&#8212;-. Thanks for your mail through some group. I got this from bhatkal world yahoo group and I am interested in finding out about ways to help this sister who had two heart attacks. Could you please write more about the case and her contact or email. Also please write which country she lives as to the medical prognosis to be performed. Hope you will reply with details. I know organizations and some hospitals who do the medical treatment free and also plus ways to find her some publishing work.&#8221; -Y.S.</p>
<p><strong>Update June 06, 2008:</strong><br />
Alhamdulillah, Sister Linda is very happy to see that so many Muslims DO care about the future of our children. She has recieved contributions from India, the UK, Canada, USA, &#8230; (HalfDate doesn&#8217;t have the full list)</p>
<p>Lastest contributors are: Mafaza, Shabby, Mazen, qamar, gloria, Mahdi, Mazin, Zabeen, William, Deb, &#8230; may Allah reward you all.</p>
<p>Here are some examples of donations received: $1, $3.95, $5, $10, $15, $20, $25, &#8230;$100, $107<br />
&#8212;-</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>I do not profit in any way from this project. Profits from corresponding books to the TSG are used to buy books for Islamic school libraries.</em>&#8221; -Linda of MuslimWritersPublishing.com</p>
<p><strong>Update May 30th, 2008</strong></p>
<p><strong>Goal: </strong>To invoke Allah&#8217;s mercy with your lil contribution</p>
<p><strong>How?</strong> You want to raise $1250 to fund the design work of 4 teacher study guides to be published for Muslim schools. (more details click the link at the end)</p>
<p><strong>So, why YOU and why NOW?</strong></p>
<p>1- You are maximizing your rewards by giving NOW, how?</p>
<p>A man came to the Prophet (SAW) asking him which Sadaqa gets the greatest of rewards. The Prophet said, &#8220;The one you give and you are healthy, <em>stingy</em>, worrying about poverty, and hoping for richness. And don&#8217;t delay until your soul is about to get out (death) when you say, &#8216;Give such and such to such and such.&#8217;&#8221; -Collected by Al-Bukhari/Al-Jamia&#8217;</p>
<p>2- You are giving for a lasting projects that will bring you continuous rewards, in-sha-Allah, every future print of these study guides you get rewards.</p>
<p>3- You are not helping a lazy dude who opt to beg, NO, this sister didn&#8217;t ask for help, but the community recommended HalfDate to help her. She had TWO HEART ATTACKS, yet, ma-sha-Allah still serving our community and <a href="http://islamicfictionbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/30/focus-on-muslim-kids-not-me/">doesn&#8217;t want the focus to be on her</a>.</p>
<p>4- You are helping a business business that is &#8220;technically&#8221; running on a non-profit basis, the owner gives the authors all their royalty rights, and gives school teachers 40% discount</p>
<p>5- You are TESTING your iman by giving to a stranger who you don&#8217;t know much and maybe even skeptical, because the returns are coming from Allah not the stranger.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_xclick&amp;business=woodad@mindspring.com&amp;item_name=Muslim Writers Publishing" target="_blank"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-17" title="donate" src="http://halfdate.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/btn_donate_lg.gif" alt="Paypal Donate Button" width="92" height="26" /></a></p>
<address><span style="color: #ff6600;">&#8220;</span><span style="color: #ff6600;">I suffered my first <span class="nfakPe">heart</span> <span class="nfakPe">attack</span> several months after retirement ending my plans to become a teacher in retirement. I suffered a second <span class="nfakPe">heart </span><span class="nfakPe">attack</span> and Allah in His mercy spared my life but my <span class="nfakPe">heart</span> is permanently damaged. Add all this up and I am pretty much homebound and manage my work and business from my home. My one person publishing business does not have any outside or family employees or helpers. I am computer challenged when it comes to web work so I have a paid web admin who manages my websites, updates them and keeps things going for me with them.</span><span style="color: #ff6600;"> I am working a fast as I physically can and will do all I can to help make this opportunity HalfDate is providing a success with the help and guidance of Allah.&#8221;</span></address>
<p style="text-align: center;">Okay, that&#8217;s sister Linda (Widad) Delgado, the woman behind Muslim Writers Publishing.</p>
<h2>So why this DateDrive is called Sisters Drive?</h2>
<p>Because you are helping sisters who are currently running a business, conducting a survey, or working for a non-profit cause.</p>
<h2>So, how can you help your sisters?</h2>
<p>Before the end of <span style="color: #ff0000;">Jumada Ath-thani, 1429 (June 8th, 2008)</span>, please help Sister Linda (Widad) Delgado, who runs the one-sister-show of Muslim Writers Publishing, to help teachers by publishing <a href="http://www.muslimwriterspublishing.com/schools.html" target="_blank">five teacher study guides (TSG)</a></p>
<p>Muslim Writers Publishing (MWP) Announces New and Exciting Teacher Study<br />
Guides For Quality Islamic Fiction Novels For The 2008-2009 School Year!</p>
<p>Muslim Writers Publishing has been listening to school teachers and administrators saying they need teacher study guides for quality Islamic Fiction books to use in their Language Arts programs.</p>
<p>Linda Delgado, MWP publisher, states that five new teacher study guides will be ready for the 2008-2009 Fall school semester for the Islamic Rose Books series. A sample excerpt of one of the teacher study guides can be viewed in pdf format at the <a href="http://www.MuslimWritersPublishing.com/books.html" target="_blank">publisher’s website</a>.<br />
Islamic Rose Books are written for the 5th through 8th grade reading levels depending on the students’ reading abilities.</p>
<p>A chapter of each of the four books in the series can be read <a href="http://www.widad-lld.com/books.html">here</a>.</p>
<ul>
<li>Book 1- The Visitors (TSG available now)</li>
<li>Book 2 – Hijab-EZ Friends  (TSG available -Fall 2008)</li>
<li>Book 3 – Stories (TSG available -Fall 2008)</li>
<li>Book 4 – Saying Goodbye (TSG available -Fall 2008)</li>
</ul>
<p>Teacher Study Guides (TSG) provide a valuable support to schools using the<br />
Islamic Rose Book Series for their Language Arts program.  The TSGs provide<br />
a comprehensive cross-curricular resource that has been field-tested and<br />
approved by Muslim educators and administrators. Content includes:</p>
<ul>
<li>Key curriculum connections</li>
<li>Engaging Islamic integrated activities</li>
<li>Critical thinking and reading comprehension</li>
<li>Internet research and projects</li>
<li>Multicultural themes</li>
<li>Vocabulary and quizzes</li>
</ul>
<h3>A testimonial for the TSG prepared for the first book in the Islamic Rose Books series, The Visitors:  “<span style="color: #339966;">Jump into The Visitors with two feet! This study guide allows your students to explore the novel in an exciting and hands-on way, and includes activities for cross-curricular integration in Language and Writing, Science, Social Studies, Health, Art, Second Language Learning and Religious Studies. It is definitely a must for your school classroom.</span>&#8220;-Sonia Dabboussi, Principal, Al-Hijra School</h3>
<p>For the TSGs design work, it needs $1,250.00.</p>
<p><strong>Method 1: PayPal</strong></p>
<p><a href="https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_xclick&amp;business=woodad@mindspring.com&amp;item_name=Muslim Writers Publishing" target="_blank"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-17" title="donate" src="http://halfdate.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/btn_donate_lg.gif" alt="Paypal Donate Button" width="92" height="26" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Method 2: USD Check or Money Order donation</strong></p>
<p>Make your check or Money order payable to: Linda Delgado<br />
Mail the check or money order to:<br />
Linda Delgado<br />
MWP/IRB<br />
P.O. Box 27362<br />
Tempe, Arizona 85285</p>
<p>In the memo line on your check or money order write: HalfDate.com</p>
<p>Be sure to include your name and mailing address or email address if you<br />
would like to hear from the MWP publisher about the success, Allah willing,<br />
of these projects.</p>
<p><strong>Method 3: Fill a survey</strong></p>
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<p><a href="http://www.optimizeitdesigns.com/">OptimizeIt Designs, Inc</a> wants to collect 100 surveys to help other sisters starting or managing a successful business. $1 will be donated when a sister fills the <a title="Survey for Sisters" href="http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=kTmctsll7e0PHxtzmrbBGg_3d_3d" target="_blank">the survey</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Method 4: Subscribe to </strong><a href="http://www.sisters-magazine.com/?a_aid=LivingHalal" target="_blank">SISTERS Magazine</a></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">After you subscribe, email your receipt to (tamra at halfdate.com). In-sha-Allah, $5 will be donated towards this drive.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Method 5: Subscribe to </strong><a href="http://rushmag.com/" target="_blank">RUSH Magazine: AMPLIFY your life sister, start today.</a></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">After you subscribe, email your receipt to (tamra at halfdate.com). In-sha-Allah, $1 will be donated towards this drive.</p>
<p><strong>Method 6: Post a comment and $0.5 will be donated for the cause</strong></p>
<p>Post your tributes and appreciations to one or more Muslim sisters in your life, including family, friends, teachers, businesses associates, etc. Click here to post in the <a href="http://halfdate.com/2008/05/08/sisters-drive/#comment">comment section</a></p>
<p><strong>Finally</strong>, If you cannot afford to provide any support for these worthy islamic educational projects at this time please pray for the success of these projects. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Shoutout for Halal Business Drive</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Update May 7th, 2008:
Alhamduillah, another successful DateDrive. All praises are due to Allah, then the support of YOU.
Many wondered why we did a shoutout drive for halal business. Many even thought it was a waste of time (Ouch! Isn&#8217;t that the mentality of Noah&#8217;s people about building the Arc!).
Anyway, for those who participated, from the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Update May 7th, 2008:</strong></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #339966;">Alhamduillah, another successful DateDrive. All praises are due to Allah, then the support of YOU.</span></h2>
<p>Many wondered why we did a shoutout drive for halal business. Many even thought it was a waste of time (Ouch! Isn&#8217;t that the mentality of Noah&#8217;s people about building the Arc!).</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Anyway, for those who participated, from the bottom/top/inside/outside of our hearts, may Allah reward you with tooooooons of rewards. BTW, can you believe that we prayed for you during the last hour of Jumaah, which we hoped that would match the acceptance hour!!! So, if that how we &#8220;mean&#8221; people show our appreciation to you, can you imagine the generosity of the most generous with those who help his DEEN and halal causes? Wait and see the fruits! May Allah accept your good ones!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Update May 2nd, 2008:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">If you don&#8217;t know about HalfDate, click about us, or call CNN :). Basically, every Hijri month we put together a &#8220;DateDrive&#8221; where you, a member of the Ummah, work together with other members of the Ummah to achieve a specific DateDrive target. This month is to collect 70 shoutouts for Halal businesses.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">In-sha-Allah, next drive will start on May 8th, where you will be helping a charity for Muslim women. If you want to recommend any Muslim women charities, please click contact us and submit your proposal, the charity has to be an officially registered entity, with email/phone and preferably can accept donation online.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Also, for next drive you can contribute by donating money or answering a <a href="http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=kTmctsll7e0PHxtzmrbBGg_3d_3d" target="_blank">survey</a> (for each person, the survey sponsor will donate $1 for the charity).</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Update April 29, 2008:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So, why are we collecting these shoutouts?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">You tell me.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">There are 1001 benefits from these shoutouts, the least to show your appreciation, for examples,</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #339966;">&#8220;I have never come across a place that is so hospitable and one that would stay open past business hours for a customer. It definitely showed me who there priority was– their CUSTOMER!&#8221;</span> -Mariam shouts out for Computers &amp; Laptops, Etc., Inc.</h2>
<p style="text-align: left;">Or to provide insights like this:</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">&#8220;Its sad that brothers can work in American branches of Egyptian companies with a beard, but they are told to shave it off if they want to be accepted to work in the Egyptian branch!!!&#8221;  -A.S</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;">-end of updates-</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Original post begins here</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">How do you feel when you see a woman with a child begging outside of your masjid?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Most probably, you’d feel sorry for them, and if they were genuinely in need, you’d help them.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #000080;">But, this DateDrive is not about them.</span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Okay, here is another question.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">How do you feel when you see a Muslim running a halal business trying to earn some halal money?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Most probably&#8230;nothing <img src='http://halfdate.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Yes, Islam commands us to help the weak members of our society, but the goal of this help is so that one day they can be strong. Islam never encourages begging, that’s why we&#8217;re suppose to give to needy people before they even ask.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Yes, it’s good to donate in general, and you&#8217;re rewarded for that.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">But here at HalfDate, you and I got no dates to waste and we want to support growth projects, where you can make a lasting difference, e.g. education, awareness, …</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">&lt;Okay, enough philosophical big talk&gt;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">So&#8230; </span>in this DateDrive, YOU are REVIVING the SUNNAH again… Because YOU want to reward those striving Muslims who, in many cases, are needy and struggling with their businesses, yet they ARE following the true teaching of the Prophet (peace and prayer be upon him) when he said</p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-size: large;">&#8220;The best earnings are the halal transactions, and the earnings with one&#8217;s hand&#8221; -Collected by Sahih Aljamia.</span></p>
<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-size: large;">أفضل الكسب بيع مبرور ، وعمل الرجل بيده</span></p>
<h2 style="TEXT-ALIGN: left">So, what&#8217;s this DateDrive all about?</h2>
<p style="text-align: left;">In-sha-Allah in this DateDrive, you will give a shout out for any halal businesses that you <span style="background-color: #ffff99;"><strong>personally</strong></span> dealt with and LOVED.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Deadline:</strong> End of Rabia-l-Thani, 1429 (May 7, 2008)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Goal:</strong> HalfDate collects <span style="color: #ff0000;">70 shoutouts</span> for any halal business owned or run by Muslims</p>
<h2 style="text-align: left;">Now, what&#8217;s in it for you?</h2>
<p style="text-align: left;">A LOT, here are just seven benefits:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">1. You are helping a Muslim businessperson<br />
2. You are helping a halal business<br />
3. You are making your brother/sister happy<br />
4. You are encouraging better business practice<br />
5. You are helping the economy of the Muslim community<br />
6. You are following the teachings of enjoining good and forbidding evil (in business practices and customer service)<br />
7. You are reviving the sunnah of your beloved Prophet (peace and prayers be upon him) by doing all of the above</p>
<h2 style="text-align: left;">How to post your shoutouts?</h2>
<p style="text-align: left;">List three things in the comment section:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">1. Business name (and what they do, if it’s not clear from their name)<br />
2. Why you LOVED their service/product<br />
3. How to contact them</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">IMPORTANT</span>: Business entities CANNOT praise themselves; they have to ask their customers to do so. HalfDate reserves the right to delete any comments if we receive complaints about the business or if it&#8217;s not appropriate for our audience.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">So&#8230; A R E&#8230; Y O U&#8230; R E A D Y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: xx-large;">Bismillah &amp; SHOUT OUT</span></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://halfdate.com/2008/04/08/shoutout-for-halal-business-drive/#comment">CLICK HERE TO POST YOUR SHOUTOUT</a></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">May Allah reward you with a palm tree in Jannah</h2>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Sometimes, we as consumers can provide so much joy to our service providers.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So&#8230;have you recently expressed thanks to the people at the halal restaurant, halal meat shop, bookstore, school, …?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The prophet (peace and prayers be upon him) said: &#8220;Whoever doesn’t thank people, doesn’t thank Allah.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here is a sample testimonial that a reader of a magazine sent to the editor.</p>
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<td>From: Rabia<br />
Date: 23 Mar 2008 23:05<br />
To: editor@s&#8212;&#8212;-magazine.com</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Assalamu Alaikum,</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I pray you and your family are well,insha&#8217;allah.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I had recently been surfing the net when I came across &#8220;saif clothing&#8221; and it had a ad about your magazine. As soon as i&#8217;d seen this I quickly ordered a copy. Masha&#8217;allah when it came I couldn&#8217;t stop reading it.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I found that every article was so wonderfully written. And I have to tell you that I wept after reading the stories about the sisters whose children had passed away.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The magazine was so attractive that my 4 year old boy kept wanting to &#8220;read&#8221; it too!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Also I thank Allah for people like yourselves that go to great lengths to help other Muslims through your work. May Allah help you to reach your goals and give you peace and contentment.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I would like to subscribe directly from you in the future. I haven&#8217;t taken out a subscription as of yet. Insha&#8217;allah I was hoping to do so when the next issue is out in april, so that I don&#8217;t get any of previous copies by mistake.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Jazak Allah Kairan sister.<br />
Wasalam<br />
Rabia umm Zakariya.</p>
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&#8220;MASHALLAH When I read this [list of issues] it made me to cry because all of these things, EVERY SINGLE ONE, I am facing at this moment as a convert to ISLAM. When I try to explain to other people all the sacrifices or hardship that come of converting, people think that I am [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;<em>MASHALLAH When I read this [list of issues] it made me to cry because all of these things, EVERY SINGLE ONE, I am facing at this moment as a convert to ISLAM. When I try to explain to other people all the sacrifices or hardship that come of converting, people think that I am crazy and they do not truly understand. Thank you for making light of this.</em>&#8221; -sister M.</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>Those issues on that list have been a source of consternation with me for years. I would have left Islam along time ago if I had not taught MYSELF.</em>&#8221; -sister A</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>Yupp its hard for us to explain how it feels to stand out because converts have an interesting disposition&#8230;[link of two quotes] but we also should remember how blessed we are&#8230; many born Muslims, may be born into Islam&#8230; but do not practice, and then they see others who leave their former lives to become Muslim, and waAllahu Alim that might strike an interest in their own journey with Islam, we can use these issues that converts deal with to our advantage and teach others and also help those newer to the faith insha&#8217;Allah</em>&#8221; -Sister W</p>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #339966;">Alhamdulillah, the Care for Converts Drive has been successfully completed. </span></h1>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #339966;">May Allah reward all those who helped or intended to help.</span></h1>
<p>[Update April/07/2008]</p>
<p>We have promised to send out the recording of Baba Ali marriage story, but due to limited volunteerDates in your DateTeam, it will take a while. Sorry. The recordings will be up on <a href="http://islamictube.net/" target="_blank">IslamicTube.net</a> when OrganicMajdool comes back from his trip, in-sha-Allah, pray for him to be back in two weeks.</p>
<p>[Update April/06/2008]</p>
<p>Alhamdulillah, with Allah&#8217;s help then all your help and support, HalfDate Care For Converts Drive has completed successfully. May Allah reward you all.</p>
<p>Some highlights of the event:</p>
<ul>
<li>It was really a true ummahwide live event, ma-sha-Allah. The guest speaker was in Egypt, the interviewer was in the UK, the program coordinator in the US, and the audience from all over the world.</li>
<li>The last event was an interview conducted by sister Fatimah BarakatuAllah with sister Naima B. Robert. The interview covered many of the challenges that converts/reverts Muslims have to face where most born-Muslims are not even aware of.</li>
<li>We got questions from Mariam-Trinidad, M-Singapore, Dornubari-Rochester, UK, Dee-Phoenix, Saleem-London, Mariah-Midlands, Farhan-US, Sakina-Oakville, Enny-NEW YORK, Hamid-Mississauga, and others. (We ran out of time, so if your question was not addressed, sister Naima will try to post an answer for you on this page)<strong><br />
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<li>Here is a tip if you are going to organize events across timezones, we had a confusion about timings: UK 9pm is it NY 4pm or 5pm? The early daylight saving in the US is really confusion, even world time converter wasn&#8217;t aware of the correct daylight saving settings.</li>
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<p>[Update March/30/2008]</p>
<p>Alhamdulillah, overwheling response from Muslims around the world. May Allah reward you all. Some highlights of the event:</p>
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<li>One sister designed a colorful flyer for the event with her local timezone conversion (Australia) then asked her brother to distributed in the masjid. She later set up a <a href="http://www.mazaif.com " target="_blank">blog</a> and linked back to HalfDate, subhana Allah. May Allah reward sister of mazaif.com <span style="display: block; padding-left: 6em; text-indent: -1em;"><span> </span></span></li>
<li>Sister A&#8217;ishah on Facebook posted a summary of the talk about criticism given by sister Megan Wyatt, may Allah reward you sister A&#8217;ishah</li>
<li>Sister Yota, posted a summary of Baba Ali&#8217;s talk [I just saw it now], may Allah reward you sister Yota</li>
<li>Thank you to all those who asked questions, maryan from Ohio, Jamil from Miami, Shakira from Lodon, &#8220;a sister from nj&#8221; from NJ, Sara from NJ,  Sara-New York, NY, Sara from East Lansing, MI,  Saffiyah-Washington DC, Muna-UAE- sharjah,  Sabir-New Jersey,  Ummuthman-London,  Saeed-Herndon,  SGee-Herndon,  Ahmed M.-Virginia Beach,  abid-london,  Maryam-Manchester,  alishba-riyadh, aisha-columbus,  Akeedah-Manchester,  Happy23-New York,  Nadia-Detroit,  Selma-Brooklyn,  Lina-Beaverton,  Dahlia-Portland,  Sister Yota-Philadelphia,  sahra-new york,  sister-Australia,  Fatimah-Austin, TX,  Huma-U.A.E.,  Sister Aisha-Baltimore,  Teresa-Los Angeles,  abuaisha-soCal, and all other [noname] commenters who tuned in for the event. We can&#8217;t thank you enough, may Allah reward you all.</li>
<li>Sister Dalia won an issue of <a href="http://sisters-magazine.com" target="_blank">SISTERS-Magazine</a></li>
<li>Sister Nada won a gift from <a href="http://n-ti.com" target="_blank">N-Ti.com<br />
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<li>Br. Nahyan won a gift from <a href="http://n-ti.com" target="_blank">N-Ti.com</a> for posting the first suggestion about our next drive</li>
<li><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">Baba Ali revealed for the first time how he found his wife <img src='http://halfdate.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></li>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">&#8220;Okay, this is one of the interesting topic, you are the first person ever asked this, I&#8217;ve been interviewed by everyone from Newsweek, to New York Times, to USA Today, and Time Magazine, and no one ever asked this question :)&#8221; said Baba Ali when he revealed for the first time his marriage search story.</span></h2>
<p><span style="background-color: #ffff00;"> Join our LAST EVENT&#8230; Call all your friends to attend, throw a party and gather your friends around the computer or speaker phone to listen, you can do this in your home, school, your masjid event hall, &#8230; BE CREATIVE.</span></p>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;">You are &#8220;about&#8221; to make history&#8230;</h2>
<p style="text-align: center;">Assalam alaikum: O you who care for converts/reverts.</p>
<p>This is truely an Ummah-wide event, we are webcasting this event, so people outside the US don&#8217;t have to call long distance.</p>
<p>Email, annoucements, flyers are going out during Jumma in Australia, the US, the UK, Canada, South Africa, UAE, India, &#8230;</p>
<p>You are &#8220;about&#8221; to make history&#8230; You are about to change the future, in-sha-Allah&#8230;</p>
<p>Because it will never be the same after this care for converts drive.</p>
<p>Each month, thousands of new Muslims are coming to Islam, but we have no system to care for their needs&#8230; But not any more, because you are starting this movement, from brainstorming to events, to follow ups.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;I will tune in today to webcast and use the phone when I can also. <span style="color: #ff0000;">For 7 years, I got tortured by people in ways no one can imagine and I wished there was something like this for me.</span> I was abandoned and still have no one to contact with family or longtime so-called friends. I fell with nothing left and had no where to go. I had to reach out to Allah for strength to get up and see the good in people and in myself, as I became lost. Not anymore! Not anymore!&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">So, STEP FORWARD and CLAIM your humble SPOT in HISTORY, in-sha-Allah. May Allah grant you a JUMBO spot in Jannah.<br />
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Here are the Tasks:<br />
0- Have the intention for Allah and think about that new Muslims who needs your help<br />
1- Forward this to your list<br />
2- Post on forums and link back to <a href="http://halfdate.com/">http://halfdate.com</a>, digg, propell, stumpleupon, &#8230;<br />
3- Contact Muslims on YouTube, Facebook, MySpace, Muxlim, &#8230;<br />
4- Google convert groups and contact them<br />
5- Tell your Masjid about this event, give them a flyer<br />
6- MAKE DUA&#8230;. M A K E What? Duuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!<span><br />
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<h2>Alhamdulillah, the 59 issues have been collected.</h2>
<h2>Now it&#8217;s time for some GREAT conversations, in-sha-Allah.</h2>
<p>All event timings are California (Pacific daylight saving timezone), use a <a href="http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html" target="_blank">time converter</a> to know your local time.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">EVENT:  Habits of Excellence: Empowerment to Improve Through Criticism</span></span><br />
Speaker: Sister Megan Wyatt, <a href="http://AskCoachMegan.com">AskCoachMegan.com</a> lifecoach<br />
DATE &amp; TIME: Friday, March 28th at 9:00pm Pacific<br />
FORMAT: Simulcast! (Attend via Phone or Webcast &#8212; it&#8217;s your choice)</p>
<p><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">EVENT:  Funny questions but really sad: A conversation with Baba Ali</span></span><br />
DATE &amp; TIME: Saturday, March 29th at 12:00pm Pacific<br />
FORMAT: Simulcast! (Attend via Phone or Webcast &#8212; it&#8217;s your choice)<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: larger;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">EVENT:  Facing the challenges, savoring the triumphs - life of a new Muslim</span></span><br />
Speaker: Sister Naima B. Robert, author of the UK best selling book, <a href="http://www.nbrobert.com/" target="_blank">From My Sisters&#8217; Lips</a><br />
DATE &amp; TIME: Saturday, April 5th at 9:00pm GMT/UTC (2:00pm California)<br />
FORMAT: Simulcast! (Attend via Phone or Webcast &#8212; it&#8217;s your choice)</p>
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<h4><span style="color: #993300;">During the Bosnia crisis, one famous imam of a major masjid in the Muslim world told the congregation, </span></h4>
<h4><em><span style="color: #993300;">&#8220;I&#8217;m putting a SUGGESTION box in the masjid so we can collect ideas on how to solve this crisis&#8221;</span></em></h4>
<p align="left"><strong>HalfDate&#8217;s concept is to guide our collective efforts towards a cause. It&#8217;s not only about monetary donation drives, because in Islam, the concept of Sadaqa (charity) is much broader than that.</strong></p>
<h4><span style="color: #993300;">Next Jumuah, he came and announced the ideas that he found in the box. First, he got lots of donations and only a few suggestions. <span style="color: #993300;"><span><strong>Guess what were the few suggestions he got?</strong></span></span></span></h4>
<p align="left"><strong>Narrated by Abu Huraira: Allah&#8217;s Apostle said, &#8220;There is a (compulsory) Sadaqa (charity) to be given for every joint of the human body (as a sign of gratitude to Allah) everyday the sun rises. To judge justly between two persons is regarded as Sadaqa, and to help a man concerning his riding animal by helping him to ride it or by lifting his luggage on to it, is also regarded as Sadaqa, and (saying) a good word is also Sadaqa, and every step taken on one&#8217;s way to offer the compulsory prayer (in the mosque) is also Sadaqa and to remove a harmful thing from the way is also Sadaqa.&#8221; -collected by Al-Bukhari</strong></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #993300;">&#8220;We can marry those Bosnian sisters.&#8221; </span></em></h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #993300;">The <span style="color: #993300;">imam asked</span>, </span></strong><em><span style="color: #993300;">&#8220;Do Muslims have something better to offer?&#8221;</span></em></h4>
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<p align="left"><strong>So, what is this DateDrive all about?</strong></p>
<p align="left">Deadline: April 6th, 2008 (end of Rabia-l-Awal 1429)</p>
<p align="left">In care for converts drive, you will help to achieve the following targets:</p>
<ol>
<li>Collect at least 59 issues that converts are facing after embracing Islam (any issue, just speak your mind: I&#8217;m confused all kind of Muslims are telling me all kinds of things, or how do I deal with my family, or Imam of the masjid wants me to marry his overseas cousin??) You can just post it in the comment section.</li>
<li>Invite at least 59 converts to attend a series of teleseminars given by other convert speakers.</li>
<li>Talk to Muslim businesses to contribute towards our gift bag for converts, so far we have the following sponsors: <a href="http://N-ti.com" target="_blank">N-ti.com</a>, <a href="http://www.sisters-magazine.com/?a_aid=LivingHalal" target="_blank">SISTERS magazine</a>, <a href="http://rushmagazine.net" target="_blank">RUSH magazine</a>, and <a href="http://AskCoachMegan.com">AskCoachMegan.com</a>.</li>
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<p align="left">Teleseminar Speakers are:</p>
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<li>Sister Naima Roberts, author of the UK best selling book, <a href="http://www.nbrobert.com/" target="_blank">From My Sisters&#8217; Lips</a></li>
<li>Br. Ali of <a href="http://askbabaali.com" target="_blank">AskBabaAli.com</a></li>
<li>Sister Megan Wyatt, <a href="http://AskCoachMegan.com">AskCoachMegan.com</a> lifecoach</li>
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<hr />Your comments and suggestions, in-sha-Allah, will have great impact in support new Muslims.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em>&#8220;We love to make takbirs when someone takes shahadah&#8230;but we need to know how we can take care of them after that&#8230; and each of you can help</em></span><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>!&#8221;- </strong></em></span><span><strong><em>Megan Wyatt</em></strong></span></h4>
<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><a href="http://halfdate.com/2008/03/15/care-for-converts-drive/#comment">CLICK HERE TO COMMENT</a></span></h1>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">Speakers are waiting for you to finish the 59 issues drive. </span></span></h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">We got all the 59 issues, Alhumdulillah.</span></h4>
<p style="text-align: center;">May Allah reward you with a date palm in Jannah.</p>
<p align="left"><strong>Special Thanks To</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://islamicity.com" target="_blank">Islamicity.com</a> for providing media coverage for this event</li>
<li>Organizing and sponsoring the teleseminars <a href="http://livinghalal.com/blog" target="_blank">LivingHalal Media</a></li>
<li><a onclick="return top.js.OpenExtLink(window,event,this)" href="http://www.care4converts.com/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000cc;">http://www.care4converts.com/</span></a> for inspiring the name of this drive</li>
</ul>
<p align="left"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="background-color: #ffff00;">Two volunteers needed to sort out the issues from the comments, because there are multiple issues per comment. If you are interested, please email </span></span></p>
<p align="left">Issues summarized so far, thanks to sister C. and Brother D, May Allah reward you<span style="font-weight: bold;">.</span></p>
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<h1><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: medium;">Issues Faced by Converts</span></h1>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with Learning:</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Distinguishing between cultural traditions and actual Islamic teachings</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Finding sound knowledge</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Lack of fundamentals (basic belief system, prayer, importance of Quran/Sunnah)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Information dump: All at once, different schools of thought, various opinions</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Lack of starter pack of commonly used Arabic words</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Unspoken topics: interacting with the opposite gender, bathroom etiquette, Islamic hygiene topics (Ghusl, etc), table matters.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Being taught without everything is Haram with no justifications or explanations</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Learning to temper enthusiasm with knowledge and humility</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Learning appropriate manners with: those who have different knowledge/follow different madh-habs, non-Muslims, non-Muslim family members, scholars, fellow Muslims</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Learning to introduce Islamic practices into automatic behavior, such as saying Bismillah before putting food in the mouth, saying dua before common daily activities</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with Practice:</span></p>
<ol type="1">
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Coping with Islamic clothing (and not following a cultural style)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Learning how to please Allah, not following a cultural group’s beliefs</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Avoiding blindly following the person who introduced you to Islam</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">When at masjid, feeling left alone and not made to feel welcome. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Being scolded for things such as wearing jeans or not wearing proper hijab</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Lack of direction as to where to purchase proper attire and how much they cost</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Fellow Muslims being passing judgment i.e. deeming someone as “extreme”</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Facing negative comments</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with old unIslamic issues: haram job, interests loans, alcohol, unlawful relationships, preciously held ideas/beliefs/practices that conflict with Islam</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Hurrying to adopt external appearances and practices without developing a firm basis of faith</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Relocating to a new community</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with the Born-Muslims</span></p>
<ol type="1">
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Cultural paradigm shift&#8211;whites and fobs are so different</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Answering the question, you are Muslim because you married to a Muslim?</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with convert profiling</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Coping with people constantly telling to do da`wah to your family, although you are trying to do it in the best way you know how, based on your relationship with your family</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Having people constantly asking you to recite “Al-Fatihah” to prove you can do it</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Despite being dressed in hijab, having Muslims asking you if you are a Muslim when they hear where you’re from</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Coping with the apparent acceptability that it is OK for every Muslim to ask you very personal questions, although it would be rude for them to ask the same of people from their own culture</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">After the initial rush of happiness that you are a Muslim, then being made to feel/told that you are inferior to born Muslims, constantly hearing, “He/she is only a convert” and therefore made to feel deficient/extremist in your ideas/that your knowledge is less sound/that you are less valued as a Muslim</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Trying to find a place that you feel comfortable in a Muslim community, especially if it has factionalized and you aren’t married to create an affiliation with one of the factions</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Being expected to leave all your culture behind as it is seen to be inferior, but then finding that most Muslims have very strong cultural adherences that you are expected to accept</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Learning to cope with new types of food, but having most people not willing to try yours</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Disparity between the support networks provided to white verses non-white    converts in communities</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Lack of new friends in the community (not being introduced)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Lack of mentorship or support groups</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Having to tell the story of your conversion to everyone you meet</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">When born Muslims don’t get it (e.g. calling First Nation as red Indians), or approaching Dawah in a way that doesn’t fit the culture of the audience</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with Marriage:</span></p>
<ol type="1">
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Difficult to meet other potential Muslims because there is no Muslim family/friends to assist</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Ethnic divisions</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Virgin question</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Lack of a responsible wali</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Difficulties for sisters who have been married before and may have children</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Having to cope with people constantly trying to marry you off to anyone who is looking to get married, despite their obvious lack of compatibility with you as a person</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Not being aware of the cultural differences enough to know what are the warning signs to look out for in a prospective groom, many of whom deliberately target new Muslimahs knowing they have no Muslim family to support them prior to/during a marriage</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Children from different Muslim fathers due to serial divorces and/or polygynous marriages</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with Non-Muslims:</span></p>
<ol type="1">
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Working out how to tell your family the news of your conversion</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Working out how to introduce your new beliefs and way of life into your relationship with them, such as halal food, hijab, alcohol, celebrations of non-Islamic festivals, etc.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Trying to show your family and friends that you haven’t joined an extremist cult, and that you won’t grow out of it in time</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Trying to show your family that Islam has made you a better person</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Lack of resources to deal with fallout of converting (ex. What to do if legal action is taken by convert family)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Answering constant insult about Islam from family/friends</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with non-monotheists (people of the book family members)</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with Expectations:</span></p>
<ol type="1">
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Islam vs. Muslim</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Developing a balanced view of the scholars - having respect for their knowledge and dedication to the deen, but acceptance of their human infallibility</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">The unrealistic expectations of most new Muslims of doing Hijrah to the Muslim lands and expecting it to be like Madinah at the time of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and their shock that the Muslims in the Muslim lands aren’t all like the Ansar</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Adjusting to the reality of the Muslim world in comparison to the ideals set by Islam and practiced by the great Muslims</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Single Muslim women with children and Muslim wives (whose husbands continue working in the west to support them) going overseas to do Hijrah and having to cope on their own with their children, in a country that they know nothing about and where they cannot speak the language</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Special Care:</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with psychological issues (bipolar, depression, old scars)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Dealing with disabilities</span></li>
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Assalamu alaikum, 
We are overwhelmed by the kindness and support all of you have shown with
not only your money, but kind words of support. Thanks to Allah and with
your help our textbook drive was a big success.

Thank you,

Eric Ali

Al-Madinah School, Los Angeles
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<h1 align="center"><font color="#ff0000">This HalfDate drive has ended.</font></h1>
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<p><font size="-0"><font color="#000080">Assalamu alaikum, </font></font><br />
<font size="-0"><font color="#000080">We are overwhelmed by the kindness and support all of you have shown with<br />
not only your money, but kind words of support. Thanks to Allah and with<br />
your help our textbook drive was a big success.<br />
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<p><font size="-0"><font color="#000080">Thank you,<br />
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<p><font size="-0"><font color="#000080">Eric Ali<br />
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<p><font size="-0"><font color="#000080">Al-Madinah School, Los Angeles</font></font></p>
<p>HalfDate&#8217;s next drive will be &#8220;Care For Convert Sisters&#8221; in collaboration with Islamicity and <a href="http://livinghalal.com/blog" target="_blank">LivingHalal</a>, if you have any suggestions please <a href="http://halfdate.com/contact">contact us</a>.</p>
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<h4 align="center">&#8220;I have been thinking where to donate the little amount of money that I made the past fortnight and was SO overwhelmed when charity is knocking at my door. (allah makes ease the path to good)… &#8221; -UmmSaarah</h4>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Georgia','serif'">SubhanAllah, the school&#8217;s principal never imagined that strangers from Singapore, Canada, the UK, Australia, the US, Denmark, and Belgium would care for his students.<br />
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<p><span style="font-family: 'Georgia','serif'"><o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-family: 'Georgia','serif'"></span><span style="font-family: 'Georgia','serif'">Indeed, it&#8217;s the blessing of Allah, may Allah reward you all.</span><span style="font-family: 'Georgia','serif'"></span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="font-family: 'Georgia','serif'"><font color="#ff0000">So, get your half date in before then</font></span></p>
<p>You are needed again! So, say, &#8220;Alhamdulillah.&#8221;</p>
<p>Your little brothers and sisters are waiting for you to pay for their books!</p>
<p>So, READ on and ACT upon their appeal.</p>
<p align="left">Too busy to read? Listen, Allah can clear away all your problems and send you tons of provisions IF you follow this Hadith:</p>
<p align="center">هل تنصرون وترزقون إلا بضعفائكم</p>
<p align="center"><font color="#000000">&#8220;You are supported and provided for no reasons EXCEPT because of th</font>e weak amongst you.&#8221; -Collected by Al-Bukhari</p>
<p align="center"><font color="#ff0000"><strong>So, now if you turn away, you are giving your back to Allah&#8217;s support and provision.</strong></font></p>
<p>Still reading? Ma-sha-Allah, Yousuf (4th grade student) must be glad to know that. He left you a message here:</p>
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&#8220;Assalam alaikum, my name is Yousuf, I&#8217;m a student at Al-Madinah School. Friday we are selling food for our textbook drive, please help my school. May Allah reward you.&#8221;</center><center><br />
</center><a href="http://www.privateschoolreview.com/school_ov/school_id/1219" target="_blank">Al-Madinah School</a>, one of the oldest Islamic schools on the west coast of America, just suffered from a water pipe burst, now they are in debt to pay for student textbooks.</p>
<h4>So&#8230; how about YOU chipping in with half a date?</h4>
<h4>Is shaitan calling you to hold back again?</h4>
<p>Well, it&#8217;s natural to feel stingy even to give $5. But, do you know the best charity is the one you give when you are stingy and not well off?</p>
<p align="center"><font class="Title2"><strong>جاء رجل إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال : يا رسول الله ، أي الصدقة أعظم أجرا ؟ قال : أن تصدق وأنت<font color="#000000"> </font><font class="Title2" color="#000000">صحيح</font><font color="#000000"> </font><font class="Title2" color="#000000">شحيح</font><font color="#000000"> ،</font> تخشى الفقر وتأمل الغنى ، ولا تمهل حتى إذا بلغت الحلقوم ، قلت : لفلان كذا ، ولفلان كذا ، وقد كان لفلان</strong></font></p>
<p>A man came to the Prophet (SAW) asking him <font color="#ff0000">which Sadaqa gets the greatest of rewards.</font> The Prophet said, &#8220;The one you give and you are healthy, stingy, worrying about poverty, and hoping for richness. And don&#8217;t delay until your soul is about to get out (death) when you say, &#8216;Give such and such to such and such.&#8217;&#8221; -Collected by Al-Bukhari/Al-Jamia&#8217;</p>
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<h2 class="comment-author" align="center"><font color="#000000">See what other donors say</font></h2>
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<h4 class="comment-author" align="center">&#8220;Alhamdolilah <font color="#ff0000">I’m a student and I’m broke, but I still managed to donate</font> . Many times we hesitate to donate even a couple of bucks, but don’t mind getting our twice-a-day-$3 fix at Starbucks.&#8221; -mt</h4>
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<h4 class="comment-author" align="center">&#8220;Asalaamu’alaykum, <font color="#ff0000">I’m from the UK, and glad my pound can help some Muslim students on the other side of the Atlantic</font>. Alhamdulillah, may Allah accept our efforts and forgive us our sins.ameen&#8221; -alqamardesigns</h4>
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<h4 class="comment-author" align="center">&#8220;Assalaamu alaikum. <font color="#ff0000">I made a donation in the same amount that I might spend on a trip to a store in the mall.</font> I believe we can all think of an amount that is easy for us to spend and apply that to this worthy cause! May Allah bless our little brothers and sisters.&#8221; -UmmAbdurrahman</h4>
<p>Here are three simple ways to donate:</p>
<p>(1) Pay by check or bank transfer/deposit to: Al-Madinah School</p>
<p>3510 Exposition Place<br />
Los Angeles, CA 90018<br />
(323) 296-5961</p>
<p><font color="#0000ff"><font color="#000000">For Bank info: Call the school at <font size="-1"><nobr>(323) 296-5961</nobr></font></font> </font></p>
<p>(2) Send directly to the publisher. Call the school at <font size="-1"><nobr>(323) 296-5961</nobr></font> or email madina &lt;at&gt; pacbell &lt;dot&gt; net</p>
<p>Here is the message of Al-Madinah School Principal</p>
<p>&#8220;I know that sometimes donors are reluctant to write checks directly to Islamic organizations, so we do have an open and past due textbook invoice that we are unable to pay. If someone would like to write a check directly to the McGraw-Hill Company sponsoring our school textbooks, I have attached the<a href="http://halfdate.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/textbook-invoice.gif" title="Textbook invoice"> invoice</a> ($5,127.54). I just need to be advised that its been paid or have the check mailed to our school and I will forward payment.</p>
<p>Salaams,</p>
<p>Eric&#8221;</p>
<p>(3) Pay online via PayPal</p>
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<p align="left">Al-Manidah School is a registered not-for-profit organization, Tax ID 51-0179919.</p>
<p align="left">Once you&#8217;ve donated your half date, please post a testimonial on how you are feeling now so others get encouraged to donate too.</p>
<p><font color="#ff0000"><strong>SPREAD THE WORD &amp; SHARE THE REWARDS</strong></font></p>
<p align="left">One brother told his friends about this drive and within hours, he collected $630 dollars, ma-sha-Allah.</p>
<p><strong>Interesting Facts:</strong></p>
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<li>There are more donors than comments</li>
<li>The smallest donation is $2 and the largest is $555 (both from Canada)</li>
<li>The second smallest donation is $3 and the second largest is $500 (both from the US)</li>
<li>First PayPal donation came in from New Jersey, at 12:10:27 PST on Feb 25, 2008</li>
<li>Last PayPal donation came in from Texas, at 09:28:32 PST on Mar 04, 2008</li>
<li>First mail-in donation is $75, recieved on Mar 3, 2008</li>
<li>School food sales has collected $638</li>
<li>Three donors donated two times</li>
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<p><strong>None &#8220;Date&#8221; type of help:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Most comments came from Canada</li>
<li>HalfDate is being <a href="http://mummyjaan.stumbleupon.com/" target="_blank">StumbledUpon</a>, Facebooked, and blogged</li>
<li><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/94075925@N00/" target="_blank">Zamzam design</a> did some graphics work</li>
<li><a href="http://www.sisters-magazine.com/?a_aid=LivingHalal" target="_blank">SISTERS Magazine</a> offered a free issue for donors</li>
<li><a href="http://rushmagazine.net" target="_blank">RUSHMagazine</a> offered a free issue for donors, and free graphics design work for HalfDate</li>
<li>One sister sent to her local newspaper</li>
<li>One brother gave a khutbah about HalfDate</li>
<li>Several brothers and sisters forwarded to their mailing lists</li>
<li>Two brothers emailed <a href="http://www.mcgraw-hill.com/cr/contacts.shtml">McGraw-Hill corporate responsibility</a></li>
<li>A blackseed supplement manufacturer offered fund raiser bottles for future drives.</li>
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<p>May Allah accept from all of us.</p>
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